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INFANTS

TODDLERS

PRESCHOOL

PRE / TEENS

 

 

TODDLERS

Understandings

  • Recognize that one parent no longer lives at home
  • May express empathy toward others, such as a parent who is feeling sad

Feelings

  • May have difficulty separating from parents
  • May express anger toward parent
  • May lose some of the skills they have developed, like toilet training
  • Toddlers may show some of the behaviors that they outgrew, such as thumbsucking
  • Sleeping and naptime routines may change
  • Older toddlers may have nightmares

What parents can do for toddlers

  • Spend more time with children when preparing to separate (e.g., arrive 10 to 15 minutes earlier than usual when you take your child to child care)
  • Provide physical and verbal reassurance of your love
  • Show understanding of child’s distress; recognize that, given time and support, old behaviors (thumbsucking) will disappear and newly developed skills (toilet training) will reappear
  • Talk with other important adults and caregivers about how to support your child during this transition time

 

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